Get a civil union licence
Before you get a civil union, you need to apply for a licence. A licence confirms it’s legal for you to have a civil union. It costs $150.
What you need to know
- You need to arrange your licence at least 3 working days before you have a civil union.
- It expires after 3 months.
- The ceremony is an additional cost which depends on the kind of ceremony you have.
- Only one of you needs to complete the application, but you need information about both of you.
Apply using the paper form
1. Start the form
2. Sign the form in front of a Registrar of Marriages
You or your partner needs to take the notice to your local Registrar of Marriages in person so they can witness you signing the declaration. The address is on the form.
If you live in Auckland, Manukau, Wellington or Christchurch, you can book a time online to go in and sign the form.
After you’ve signed the declaration, you have to wait until you get the licence before having your civil union ceremony. It takes 3 days to get the licence. If you’re using a celebrant you may have to wait longer until they get the licence by mail or courier.
Signing the declaration is not your civil union ceremony.
You’ll need to declare:
- you’re legally allowed to have a civil union
- you’ve been truthful on your civil union licence form
- you’ve got consent from a Family Court judge if you’re 16 or 17.
3. Pay the fee
If you’re in Auckland, Manukau, Wellington or Christchurch, pay the fee when you make the declaration in front of the Registrar of Marriages.
If you’re anywhere else in NZ, when you make your declaration, you’ll be given information about how to post your payment to the Births, Deaths and Marriages office in Wellington.
If you arrive in NZ less than 3 working days before the ceremony
1. Start the form
You need to sign the declaration in front of an authorised person. Check the form for a list of people who can witness your declaration.
2. Pay the fee
Send it to Births, Deaths and Marriages. Include an international bank draft in NZ dollars to pay the fee. Make it payable to the Department of Internal Affairs.
3. When you arrive in NZ
You’ll need to visit a registry office to sign a declaration before your ceremony. There’s a list of addresses on the application form.
The licence costs $150.
Celebrants set their own fees, on top of the cost of the licence.
Who can get it
Most people can get a civil union licence. Same-sex civil unions are legal in NZ.
You don’t need to be an NZ citizen. Visitors to NZ can marry or have a civil union here.
Who can’t legally have a civil union
You can’t legally have a civil union if you’re:
- already married or in a civil union, unless you’re changing your relationship with the same person
- closely related by birth, marriage or adoption
- under 16.
If you’re 16 or 17
What happens after you apply for a licence
If you’re using celebrant
You’ll be sent the licence, and 2 copies of the “Copy of particulars of civil union” — a form with all the details of the people getting the civil union.
Give all 3 of these documents to your celebrant before your ceremony.
Tip: If you have a back-up venue.
Put your back-up venue in your application. You can only have the ceremony in the places you’ve put on the application.